Intimate nowDaily check-in
Mood, energy, capacity, in the mood, and what you’d love today.
See the check-inFeatures
The features in Intimate.
Intimate has six main features and several smaller ones. You can use any of them on its own.
What you ask for most
Needs in words
CuddlesSlow massageLong hugWalk after dinnerQuiet eveningBreakfast in bedKind words
Bigger means asked more. Brighter means met more.
Needs in wordsBigger means asked more and brighter means met more. “Most wished for” works the same way.
Needs
Ask for what you’d love in up to three words. Your person answers Yes, Later or Not today.
See how asking worksFelt connected
Tick what helped you feel close. Each tick adds a strand to a thread.
See your threadsReports and forecast
A weekly recap, a count of in-sync days, and a forecast for the days ahead.
See the reportsCalendar and cycle
A shared calendar, and cycle tracking you can choose to share with your person.
See the calendarShare cards
Story and square cards, made on your device.
See the cardsOther features.
Private Log
Notes about your person that only you can read. Nine categories, from “They loved” to “Important dates”.
Habits
Up to three, each with a weekly target, and your person can cheer you on.
Quiet notifications
Off until you turn them on, vague by default, and silent from 10pm to 7am unless you change it.
Your colour
You each pick one of nine colours, and it marks your data in every chart on both phones.
The sky
The background shifts from dawn to night with the time of day.
A daily idea
One idea about closeness a day, credited to the researcher behind it.
Start with one feature.
Nothing in the app is required. A simple first step is to pick something in “Today I’d love…” tomorrow morning.