How it works
It takes about a minute a day, mostly tapping.
Each day you and your person check in, ask each other for things, and tick what helped you feel close. This page shows the setup, an example day and an example week.
Start
Start in a couple of minutes.
One of you starts the space.
Open the app and sign up with a first name, your email and a password, and enter the code we email you. Then tap “Start our space”. You’ll get a six-character code.
Your person joins.
They sign up, tap “I have a code” and enter it. A space holds exactly two people, so a used code stops working.
You each check in.
Pick a mood and what you’d love today. That’s all you need to do on the first day.
Each of you has your own account. You pick your own colour, so you’re always easy to tell apart.
Welcome, Sam
Intimate is made for two. Let’s connect you with your person.
Your code
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A day
A day with Intimate.
Morning: a few taps.
Choose your mood, how much you have to give and what you’d love today. It takes about ten seconds.
Midday: a heads-up, if there’s one.
“Your energy is high, and Sam’s capacity is low today.” The heads-up is one line and gives no advice.
Evening: ask, or answer.
Ask for one thing, or answer the one waiting for you. Tick what helped you feel close.
Night: the day resets.
Your check-in resets at midnight, and the next day starts empty.
A week
An example week.
Tuesday
Robin asks for “Slow massage” on Thursday evening.
Wednesday
Sam says yes, with a note: “Yes. I’d love that.”
Thursday
They have the massage. If it hadn’t happened, Robin would tap “It didn’t happen” and the need would close without a score.
Friday
Robin scores it in hearts: “Meant the world.”
Monday
Last week is ready: days in sync, needs met, the best day and the hardest.
Some weeks nobody asks for anything, and you both just check in.
Over time
Reports open over time.
Some reports need a few days of check-ins before they open. Each one opens once there’s enough data for it.
Counted in days that either of you checked in.
- 1day
Connection tracker. Tick what brings you close.
- 3days
Weekly recap.
- 7days
Month by month.
- 14days
Forecast and patterns.
Privacy
What each of you sees.
You both have the same access. Your person can see everything you enter except three things.
Your person sees
- Your mood, energy, capacity and in the mood
- What you’d love today
- Something you shared
- Sleep and engagement
- Your habits
- The needs you ask for
- What you tick as connected
- Your cycle, if you turn it on
Only you see
- Your Log
- The number for how much a connection means to you
- The cards you make, until you share one
The full table is on the Privacy and security page. The glossary explains each term.
Start together.
Most features need both of you. Here’s a message you can send to your person.