Start a space
Your code
K7M2QX
Share this with your person.
Robin joined. A space holds exactly two.
Start a space for two.
You get a six-character code. Your person types it in, and you’re both in. A space holds exactly two people.
Everything inside
Every feature in Intimate.
All of Intimate’s features, in the order you’d use them: check in, ask, answer, see, plan and share. You can tap and drag the demos. Each one plays when it scrolls into view.
Stage 1 of 6
Check in
Your check-in
How are you feeling?
What Robin sees
😌 Sam is feeling calm
Fifteen moods to choose from.
From Content and Loving to Overwhelmed and Need space. Your person sees it the moment you save.
Today
How are you feeling?
Today I’d love…
Energy, capacity, in the mood.
Five steps each, and every step has a label. Capacity is what you’ve got to give today.
Your check-in
Today I’d love…
At the top of Robin’s view of you
“Today I’d love…”
Twelve gentle options, from Touch to A good listen. They sit at the top of your card.
Tuesday evening
Good evening, Sam
😌🥰
✨ You’re in sync today
You and Robin feel much the same today.
You both picked 🤲 Touch and 🕯️ Stillness. Mood, energy, capacity and in the mood are each within one step.
In sync.
When you’ve picked at least two of the same wants and your levels sit within a step, Home lights up.
Tuesday 14 October
9:41
Intimate nowRobin shared a need 💫Intimate with details onRobin would love: Slow massageQuiet notifications.
Off until you switch them on. The lock screen reads “Sam shared a need 💫” unless you ask for details.
Something to share
Up to thirty words, once a day.
“Finished the report I’d been putting off. Glad it’s done.”
Something to share.
One short note a day, up to thirty words, about anything you like.
Last night’s sleep.
Slide to the hours, in halves. It stays locked until you tap it, so scrolling can’t nudge it.
My habits today
Up to three habits.
Set a weekly target for each and tick them off. Your person sees how you’re going and can cheer you on.
Your person’s card.
It shows their mood, what they’d love today, sleep, habits and anything they’ve shared, and it updates as soon as they save.
Your energy is high, and Robin’s capacity is low today.
Robin’s pre-period starts in 2 days.
You both slept badly last night. Maybe an early night.
One-line heads-ups.
“Your energy is high, and Sam’s capacity is low today.” A single sentence with no advice.
💡 From the experts · Say thank you for everyday things. In the Gottmans’ research, couples who stayed together regularly noticed and appreciated what their partner did. (John & Julie Gottman)
One idea a day.
A short idea about closeness, credited to the researcher behind it. You both see the same one.
You each pick one of nine
😌🥰
You’re in sync today
Your colour.
Pick one of nine. Your name and your data use it on both phones, and colours too close to your person’s are greyed out.
The background changes with the time of day
A background that changes with the time of day.
Dawn, day, golden hour, evening and night, with more stars at night and the odd shooting star.
Sign in with a code from your email.
Ask for a sign-in code and skip the password. It works once, for an hour.
How present you felt.
One to ten for how absorbed you were in your day, whatever you got done.
Stage 2 of 6
Ask
Just between you two
Needs
What would you love?
Slow massage
Up to three words
When
TodayTomorrowThursday
MorningAfternoonEveningNight
Send
Sent. Robin will see it when they’re ready.
Ask in up to three words.
For example “Slow massage” or “Long kissing”. A need can be up to three words.
When
Pick a day and a time.
Today or the next two days, morning to night or anytime, with a line of detail if you want.
Slow…
Slow massageasked 5 times
Slow danceasked 2 times
Slow morningasked once
It remembers your wording.
Start typing and it offers what you’ve asked before, so the same need always reads the same way.
Answer and rate the last one first. Then the next ask opens.
One at a time.
The next ask opens once the last one has been answered and rated.
Clear a need sent by mistake.
Clearing it removes it for both of you.
Stage 3 of 6
Answer
Robin asked for
Slow massage
Thursday · evening
Tap an answer.
Afterwards: how much did it mean?
A littleMeant the world
Yes, Later or Not today.
Your person picks one of the three answers and can add up to 140 characters.
You said yes to
Slow massageTomorrow · evening
Walk after dinnerSunday · afternoon
Your yeses, in one list.
Anything you said yes to waits there with its day and time until it’s rated.
How much did it mean?
A littleMeant the world
Hearts for what it meant.
From “A little” to “Meant the world”. Reports use them to show what mattered most.
Past needs
Cuddles
Meant the world♥♥♥♥♥
Meant the world♥♥♥♥♥
Long hug
A lot♥♥♥♥♥
A lot♥♥♥♥♥
Shoulder rub
Nice♥♥♥♥♥
Nice♥♥♥♥♥
Your past needs.
Every finished need, with who asked, what was said and how many hearts it got.
Change your mind.
Switch a yes to Later or Not today, or edit your note, whenever you like.
When it didn’t happen.
Tap “It didn’t happen” and the need closes without a score.
Needs on Home.
Your open need and how the last few went sit in the check-in card on Home.
Stage 4 of 6
See
Today
Felt connected
What helped you feel close?
2 ticked today
Robin ticked 🫂 Long hug and 🌙 Cuddled in bed.
Tick what brought you close.
Today or yesterday. A long hug, a walk, an evening without phones.
What brings you close
Your threads
Each tick is one strand.
Each tick adds a strand.
A dark sky, two glowing people and braided threads between them, each one named.
Mon 6 – Sun 12 October
Your week
3✨ Days in sync
2 of 3🔥 Needs met · 💖 1 loved
Wed🌿 Best day
Sun🌧️ Hardest day
·M✨T✨W·T✨F·S·S
Home tells you on Monday that it’s ready.
Monday’s recap.
Days in sync, needs met, your best day and hardest, and a few things you shared.
Your points of connection
7 of 10
Your own list of ten.
Write your own or pick from ideas. Rename or delete one and its history stays.
How much it means
Only you see the number.
How much it means.
One to three hearts per point, set by you. Your person can’t see the number.
Good-mood days71%
Energy3.6
Slept well that night68%
Long hug, days with it. Illustrative.
What each connection does.
A comparison of days with it and days without, over ninety days. Results are labelled as patterns.
A month in dots.
The days each of you felt connected, and the days you both did.
Choose the range and the person.
Pick a range from three to ninety days, and show yourself, your person or both of you.
Needs in words
Bigger means asked for more often.
CuddlesSlow massageLong hugWalk after dinnerQuiet eveningBreakfast in bedKind words
Needs in words.
Bigger means asked more and brighter means met more. “Most wished for” works the same way.
In sync
64%
Both doing well: 9 days. Both low: 3 days.
How often you were in sync.
A percentage, with the days you were both doing well and the days you were both low.
Energy
Capacity
In the mood
Month by month.
A strip of squares for every measure and a card for each day.
Day 1 · Connection tracker
Day 3 · Weekly recap
Day 7 · Month by month
Day 14 · Forecast
Reports open as you go.
The connection tracker from day one, the recap after three days, the month after seven and the forecast after fourteen.
The numbers up top.
Needs asked, needs met, fulfilment, sleep, engagement and habits on track.
A line for every measure.
Energy, capacity, in the mood, sleep and engagement, each of you in your own colour.
Habits and how you feel.
How many habits get done on low-energy days next to good ones.
Your moods, day by day.
The mood you chose most each day, in a grid.
Follow one need.
Pick a need and see how often it was asked, how often it was met and what it meant.
Stage 5 of 6
Plan
What the days ahead may bring
The days ahead
Chance of being in sync
Today20%Wed35%Thu60%Fri85%Sat50%Sun30%Mon70%
Mood weather
● Sam
☀️Tod🌤️Wed⛅Thu☀️Fri🌦️Sat🌧️Sun🌤️Mon
● Robin
🌤️Tod⛅Wed🌤️Thu☀️Fri☀️Sat🌦️Sun🌤️Mon
Chance of being in sync.
Fourteen days ahead, worked out from how often you’ve really been in sync.
Shared by you both
Calendar
Robin’s cycle
🌧️ Pre-period
Can feel tender, tired or irritable. Patience and kindness help.
Cycle tracking is opt-in. Predictions are a guide only.
An opt-in cycle.
Today’s phase and a fourteen-day strip on the calendar. Your person gets heads-ups.
The next 3 days
What a usual Tue, Wed and Thu looks like for you.
Tue
Wed
Thu
The next three days.
What a usual Tuesday looks like for each of you.
Mood weather
● Sam
☀️Mon🌤️Tue⛅Wed☀️Thu🌦️Fri🌧️Sat🌤️Sun
● Robin
🌤️Mon⛅Tue🌤️Wed☀️Thu☀️Fri🌦️Sat🌤️Sun
Mood weather.
An icon from sunny to stormy for each day of the week, showing the chance of a good-mood day.
Patterns
“Sam tends to have less energy on Thursdays (2.4 vs 3.1 usually).”
“On Gym days, Robin’s capacity is 3.8 (usually 3.2).”
Illustrative.
Patterns in plain words.
“Sam tends to have less energy on Thursdays.” Shown once there’s enough data.
● TravelThu · all day
● DateSat · 7pm
● TrainingSun · 6am
One shared calendar.
Work, travel, training, dates and social plans, each in the colour of the person who added it.
Tap to restart the count.
“My period started today.”
One tap restarts the count and adjusts the stored cycle length toward your real one.
How you both usually are
🩸 PeriodEnergy is often lower. Warmth, comfort and rest help.
🌱 Building upEnergy and optimism usually build.
✨ Peak (ovulation)Often the most social, confident and in the mood.
🍂 Winding downEnergy settles. More need for calm.
🌧️ Pre-periodCan feel tender, tired or irritable.
How you both usually are.
Energy, capacity and mood in each phase, from the last ninety days.
Log · only you can see these
Loved the little lemon cake from the corner place.
Only you
Surprise idea: the garden table for their birthday.
Only you
A Log only you can read.
Nine categories, from “They loved” to “Important dates”, with search.
Habit pace.
Where each habit is likely to land by Sunday, at your usual rate.
The next thirty days.
A solid line for what happened, a dashed one for what’s likely, and a band for the range.
Dusk · Story
Six cards.
Our stats, Felt connected, Our threads, In sync, Mood and Highlights.
Dusk
Cream
Clear
Your photo
Dusk, cream, clear or your photo.
Story or square, ready for your phone.
Days in sync
Needs met
Your names
Connection names
You choose every number.
Switch stats, names and dates on or off. On Threads, names start hidden.
Made on this device
Made on your device.
Nothing is uploaded unless you share the image yourself.
On a big screen too.
The tab bar becomes a sidebar, and everything has more room.
Start with one feature.
Nothing in the app is required. A simple first step is to pick something in “Today I’d love…” tomorrow morning.