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Felt connected

Tick what helped you feel close.

Each tick adds a strand to a thread on a shared map. After a month the map shows which connections happen most often.

What brings you close

Your threads

💆 Massage🫂 Long hug💌 A sweet note💬 Deep talk🍽️ Meal togetherYouRobin

Each tick is one strand.

Your points

Your own points of connection.

Choose up to ten things that make you feel close to your person, in your own words. You each keep your own list.

Each day, tap what helped you feel close. You can log today or yesterday, so you can catch up in the morning.

Delete one and its past days stay in your reports.

Ideas to start

MassageIntimacyLong hugA sweet noteHelped outDeep talkLaughed togetherMeal togetherWalk togetherPhone-free timeCuddled in bedLittle surprise

Threads

How a thread is made.

Every tick adds one strand. Strands twist into a braid, so a thread gets thicker the more often it happens. Your points arc above and your person’s arc below, each named on its thread.

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Above: what Robin did for you. Below: what you did for Robin.

How much each one means is private.

Give each point one, two or three hearts: Nice, Means a lot, Means the world. The bolder ones get a thicker thread.

Your person can’t see the number you chose. To them the thread just looks bolder.

The app hides the number from your person. The database doesn’t lock it. What we can’t protect against →

What it does

What each connection does.

Compare the days you ticked something with the days you didn’t, over the last 90 days: how good the day felt, energy, capacity, in the mood, how you slept that night and how the next day felt.

Results are labelled as patterns. Each one needs at least three days with the connection and three without before it appears.

Illustrative

🫂 Long hug

Your good-mood days: 71% of days with it, 58% without.

With71%
Without58%

A month

A month, in dots.

A dot for each day: the days each of you felt connected and the days you both did. On the first of the month, Home tells you last month’s report is ready.

One of youThe otherBoth

Start with one connection.

Add one thing that helped you feel close this week.

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